tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20908771.post7198221503877438675..comments2023-09-23T06:58:34.343-07:00Comments on The Bipolar View: Don't Believe Rape Victims Without Checking Their Story!spotted elephanthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17681544565260222585noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20908771.post-48248182988859623472007-02-10T16:01:00.000-08:002007-02-10T16:01:00.000-08:00I like your no nonsense approach to believing peop...I like your no nonsense approach to believing people impacted by sexual violence. Nice work :)<BR/><BR/>You are correct that females are usually treated worse in the media than males, but from the sexual assault/abuse media I have consumed here in Canada, I see both sexes being treated pretty shabbily.<BR/><BR/>I am in no way minimizing the way women and girls are treated and affected by sexual violence, but I do believe males have their own hurdles to overcome (i.e. we are more likely to think a male survivor of sexual violence will become an offender, versus a female, and so forth).<BR/><BR/>Just as with women and girls, because of very low reporting rates, I do not think we have any idea the number of boys and men who have experienced sexual violence. In my work at sexual assault centres this past decade, I have seen the number of males coming forward in increasing numbers each year. While I do not think sexual violence is 50/50 between sexes, I think a lot more males are affected than we realise. <BR/><BR/>I believe feminism and the women's movement in general has been integral in helping all persons impacted by sexual violence, and this is true for males, as well. And I think we can acknowledge the sexual violence boys and men experience (typically at the hands of men) without diminishing the experience of girls and women.<BR/><BR/>As for the whole issue of false rape allegations, it appears that I have as much patience as you :) I am sick and tired of the attention always being focussed on the victim (versus the perpetrator's behaviour) and the assumption that the victim is lying.<BR/><BR/>Societal prejudices exist at all levels, and we have a whole lot of work to do to if we are going to eradicate these false beliefs and better support survivors!Monikahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12173874298223506765noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20908771.post-24588913106490373232007-01-07T22:37:00.000-08:002007-01-07T22:37:00.000-08:00Faith-Thanks for the link.
simplywondered-Right-c...Faith-Thanks for the link.<br /><br />simplywondered-Right-can you imagine if they reported realistically on rapes of women? There'd be no room for anything else.<br /><br />And I'm sorry, because strange things like this happen to me too, but reading that "becky" was actually you has left me laughing helplessly. Only evil blogger would probably call me "rabbithater".spotted elephanthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17681544565260222585noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20908771.post-13414555678377528572007-01-07T16:04:00.000-08:002007-01-07T16:04:00.000-08:00how many raped women did they have to walk past to...how many raped women did they have to walk past to find a male rape victim story - surely people don't just see what they want to??? that would be almost dishonest...<br />i seem to be posting as 'becky' - this is an error and the sort of thing that happens to me with computers.<br />i am in fact simplywondered. sorry.Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18244814275856017662noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20908771.post-47264348980296116972007-01-04T08:43:00.000-08:002007-01-04T08:43:00.000-08:002bsophora has a post regarding false rape allegati...2bsophora has a post regarding false rape allegations up on her blog if you want to check it out.<br /><br />http://2bsophora.blogspot.com/2006/12/false-accusations-of-rapesexual.htmlFaithhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11408463400621223528noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20908771.post-4699056185232460542006-12-27T13:19:00.000-08:002006-12-27T13:19:00.000-08:00"sometimes women lie about rape, and that this hur..."sometimes women lie about rape, and that this hurts everyone!"<br />This was one of my ex husbands favourite arguments - as I have said - exsparklematrixhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04845382651557594880noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20908771.post-92167480252030956562006-12-26T23:53:00.000-08:002006-12-26T23:53:00.000-08:00Spot on post, S.E.
So true.
Take good care,
ZSpot on post, S.E.<br /><br />So true.<br /><br />Take good care,<br /><br />Ztaught_to_despisehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03672554006988389013noreply@blogger.com